How Big is Too Big?

Written by Gia Gotham


To answer this simply, I believe this is held in the eye of the 'boobholder' and no one else. Size is subjective. What may be large to some may be small to others. And vice versa. And then there are those odd few, like myself, who can't even conceive of there being a "too big". 

I have always been obsessed with above average ample breasts ever since I can remember. Who knows where it all began for me. I was a very early bloomer which encouraged my obsession. Started developing at the age of 11 where I pretty much awoke one day from an overnight transformation from flat as a board to training bra graduate. That also changed how boys, and especially girls, acted towards me from then on. The bigger my boobs have grown, the stronger and more blatant the thoughts, opinions, actions, and words have been towards me regarding my ever expanding cup size. Both positive and negative.

Society has such a skewed vision of what's beautiful let alone it's perceived opinion of big boobs and the ladies who sport them but that's even a whole other story. What does speak loudly for women as a whole are the solid numbers and growth in breast augmentation surgeries compared to other cosmetic surgeries. Breast augmentation has now surpassed liposuction and has taken the number 1 spot for most popular cosmetic surgery, at approx. 1,000 performed daily across the US. Hell I even had 2 of them in 2013 as part of my quest to go as big as possible. And I am not through. Not even close.

Most of the common feedback and personal concerns from other women I've heard has been with regards to their own cup size has varied with some things in common. The most common is the concern of going "too big" because of family, friends, or coworkers. "My mom would kill me if she found out" "My girlfriends will make fun of me for having fake boobs" "My job won't take me seriously", and many more. I stumbled across a very disturbing story on a large implant forum where a girl opted for smaller size implants although she had expanded several times as I have, only to trade down because of constant turmoil she felt from family, friends, and strangers. It saddens me how others can affect so deeply to where we can deny ourselves true happiness in actually being ourselves. 

As odd as it sounds, having my boobs to the point to where I am practically immobile is how I do truly see myself. When I get asked "How big are you trying to go" and I answer with the same above response, I generally get a nervous laugh along with a form of "You're crazy!" I have nothing to hide, and it's taken me a long time to gain the confidence I have to tell people to jump in the lake or just ignore their ignorance. I hope others can get there as well as I hope my oddly large chest can encourage women to just be themselves and know they deserve to be happy! It's hard enough to be a woman, let alone worrying about constant approval for decisions regarding you that should only be decided by you.YOU are the one who lives with your boobs and your body, no one else. 

How big is too big? How blonde is too blonde? Eyeshadow too bold? Long acrylic nails too slutty? Too tattooed? Too many piercings? Blue hair too loud? Too skinny? Too fat? Too muscular? All of these can only be answered by those they concern. If worn with confidence, if they help express who you are, how you are feeling, and help you become closer to how you truly see yourself, then there is no limit or a no answer to what brings you to YOU. We all begin the same way, as a blank canvas. We are not all going to turn out the same. I always say concerning tattoos, is you earn them. They found you and revealed themselves to you when the time came. We were born with them, they just needed a little help coming out. Body modification, cosmetic surgery, gender reassignment surgery, and body building are just a few of the processes and procedures that people go through to get closer to their true self. Who are we to judge?

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